Freepers take on one night stands

Freepers comment on an article about one night stands. The results are misogynist, as expected. But what I did not expect was how...incomprehensible a lot of the opinions are:

trapped_in_LA is against marriage to non-virgins:

[T]he more sex partners you have (male or female) the more your heart is hardened, the more difficult it will be to emotionally attach to someone. Basically they’re screwed.

This is why the best prospect one has for a long term committed relationship is for both partners not to have any sexual experience (aka virgins) before marriage.

The hook-up culture is just making hookers of all our women and you’d be crazy to marry one (you’d be crazy in nay case with laws so stacked against men in the west now a days).

veritas2002 is one of those incomprehensible ones:

Most men who are having intercourse with a woman to whom they have no intention whatsoever to commit themselves are willing to utter those words as they reach climax, “I love you.” Women are primed to believe what he’s saying. But if they really thought about it, would this mean that he actually loved all of the 50-100 women that he had intercourse with previously and to whom he uttered those same words?

johnnycap doesn't think women like sex:

My sense over the years is that the women I have known who hooked up were either really REALLY drunk or really REALLY calculating for some end scheme. Otherwise, they did not hook up.

SnakeDoctor analyzes the male psyche:

Honestly, I think men are more prone than women to conflate sex and love (in and outside of marriage). Men need sex to feel loved/accepted/etc. ... and if the real thing is absent, they’ll fill the void with whatever moderately acceptable substitute they can find.

FrdmLvr sounds like a real peach:

I think men hold on to the “relationship” until the pain of the nagging outweighs the pleasure of the sex. Then he moves on.

A winnar is Celerity!

I’ve felt that women have had the freedom of choice, and men have to subliminally beg and plead for sex and sexual contact. This fosters other “male exclusive” tendencies, such as porn.

My experience has lead to some liberation : I learned how to play that game as well (Get good looking, or get rich... or both if you can). The result - I found a good girl, and will be getting married in 3 weeks !

Summary: I too learned how to be a “Lock” instead of a “Key”. (Thanks Spetznaz !)